JUNE-KNOW: Are You Insane?

Have you been doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results? Have you been arguing with someone about the same thing? Have you been asking someone to change for decades? Have you been thinking the same way, following the same method, tradition, and to no or worsened results? Why? I have heard this saying about it being insanity to do something over and over expecting different results. I agree.

I have heard this other saying “better to deal with the devil you know than the devil you don’t know” and I say, I don’t want to deal with any devil. However, I think we continue a thing out of familiarity, a need to be right, pride, fear of change and failure and a false representation of what faith looks like. Any of these things create a rut and keeps you stuck in a hell your soul doesn’t want to be in.

Start the process of letting go with constantly reminding yourself of what you really want in your life. What did you really want when you got into this relationship? Friendship? Entanglement? Job? Business? Let your soul speak. Your pride has spoken long enough. Your fear has spoken loud enough. Your false faith has spoken enough.

Be honest with yourself.

It’s okay to be wrong about a relationship, a job, a position, a partner, whatever! It’s okay to be wrong and maybe you don’t want to be wrong because you enjoy letting others know when they are wrong. Ah ha! Pride, arrogance, and perhaps narcissistic tendencies. Ah ha! You have problems apologizing because you see it as a weakness or being wrong as a weakness. It takes a BIG PERSON, a MATURE PERSON, a HEALED PERSON, to APOLOGIZE and TO ADMIT TO BEING WRONG. Free yourself and be honest with yourself FIRST. So what if people are talking. So, you are going to let people’s opinion of you keep you imprisoned in a situation that is keeping you insane? I hope not. I pray not.

Forgive yourself. Forgive others. Heal.

Learn from your mistakes. You’ll grow. Growth equals better life skills. Growth equals higher levels of quality existence. Growth means you can help someone else along the way.

Create a mantra this month to help you to let go. My mantra this month, “I don’t have the energy for that (foolishness). My energy is needed for my goals and dreams this year.”

Let go my love. Let go and create the space for something divine. Give your mind and spirit the restoration it craves.

~Nikki