You don’t need people to UNDERSTAND you to be WHO YOU ARE (your AUTHENTIC SELF) and to DO WHAT YOU’RE CALLED TO DO (or WANT TO DO). We explain too much of ourselves out of the need to be understood and usually to be people that have no intention of understanding you. Yes, it’s okay to explain yourself to someone that wants to know you better but that will not be EVERYBODY. It will not always be your FAMILY or your FRIENDS. Hopefully, you don’t have a significant other that doesn’t care to understand and know you. But, it happens.

The FACT still remains it’s not necessary to have people to understand the authentic you and what you are doing or what to do with the life you have been blessed with. We really want validation and approval because it feels good and it confirms and there is nothing wrong with that until you need it to move forward and to feel “okay” about who you are. It’s okay until it hinders you and your progression. It’s okay until you don’t get it you change your mind and your destiny and your personality to FIT in. And now everyone is happy EXCEPT you.

BREATHE and BREATHE again.

You don’t need people to UNDERSTAND you to be WHO YOU ARE (your AUTHENTIC SELF) and to DO WHAT YOU’RE CALLED TO DO (or WANT TO DO).

~Nikki