Self-love is setting boundaries and enforcing them. SETTING AND ENFORCING boundaries is hard work. Especially, when you love that person. Especially, when people don’t understand your journey or your vision. And let me just say this, they don’t have to, and you need to learn to be okay with that. Self-love and setting boundaries are hard work. You must stand your spiritual ground.
~Nikki
Nikki's Confetti Life 
The very act of being whole is being you.