Self-love is setting boundaries and enforcing them. SETTING AND ENFORCING boundaries is hard work. Especially, when you love that person. Especially, when people don’t understand your journey or your vision. And let me just say this, they don’t have to, and you need to learn to be okay with that. Self-love and setting boundaries is hard work. You have to stand your spiritual ground.
~Nikki
Nikki's Confetti Life 
That is what i tell Sheryl all the time. You cannot lock me in that closet again today. I mean I have boundaries. Of course i say it under breath as she locks the door. A man needs to know his limits after all. 🙂