Has your yesterday been taking up days? Months? Years?

There’s nothing like being rejected by people that you love and the people that are supposed to love you. You expect love from your family but you received rejection. Maybe it was someone you were supposed to be with forever but, somehow that ended.

BUT… YOU DON’T HAVE TO STAY TRAPPED IN NAZARETH. You don’t have to stay trapped in REJECTION. You can leave rejection where it is! You leave it with the person and the situation that is rejecting you, your presence, your existence, your gifts, your talents.

Stop trying to get them to like you, love you, hang with you, talk to you, call you, accept you. Stop trying to BUY THEIR LOVE. Stop trying to jump through hoops and leap over tall buildings to get a tenth of their attention.

THE SIGNS ARE CLEAR. THE SIGNS ARE CLEAR!

It’s not easy but it’s necessary for your GROWTH & JOURNEY. It’s something IN THEM that YOU can’t fix or please. It’s something they REJECT in themselves, something they can’t get over in their own lives and they project it on to you!

You gotta go on, Love. You’ve got to keep them in your prayers, disconnect but stay cordial but don’t go out of your way. You may have to live with them in your family and at family functions but you don’t have to let them live in your head and heart. Focus on your calling, family, dreams, God and keep pressing towards the mark.

I am not saying ANY of this easy. BUT let it create the opportunity for you to HEAL anyway. Succeed anyway. Do what you are created to do, anyway! And do it whole. And do it with joy. And do it without having anything to prove to “them”.

~Nikki