Becoming. Allow yourself to become! We, that are doing the work on ourselves or just living our lives are all becoming something. The choice is yours. But, when you are trying to empower yourself, change, be a better person you can easily become frustrated. It takes time to become who you are becoming. Let it unfold and be patient with yourself. Numerous times I said yes when I wanted to say no and then found myself dealing with drama. There were times I wanted to say something, but I didn’t. I had to find my voice and then take the opportunities to use it! A decision to change overnight may come, but change itself won’t be overnight.
~Nikki
Nikki's Confetti Life 
Changes do not occur overnight unless a bear steals your food, then you find new ways to change immediately. Chase the bear or leave the bear alone. Yes change is slow unless the bear has the food in his mouth and is disappearing over the hill. Then change immediately seems normal.
PS: yeah its a long story. LOL