Let’s cut to the chase. Do you believe there is a such thing as a bad mother? If you do, do you believe they should be forgiven? What about bad fathers? Should they be forgiven? Should they be honored? What does it mean to be honored?

Some mothers never wanted to be mothers and some fathers never wanted to be fathers. You could jump to conclusion and say well they never should have had relations but, then you would be just jumping to conclusions without context and knowledge. So, then what do you with mothers on a day honoring mothers that hasn’t displayed motherhood? Is it okay for children, adult children not to do anything on a man made holiday for their mother? What about father’s day?

Why do most of society say things like, “Well, he or she is “still” your parent and you should take care of them or honor them? Once again, what is honor? Who’s definition are we using and what religion because not everyone subscribes to one religion.

Do parents get to loom these things over their children like a wand? A tool of manipulation and sorcery? Is that right? Do they get to demand things of children who are adults and even have family’s of their own? What kind of “honor” and “respect” is that?

I’m just here for the answers.

~Nikki