ARGUE for your limitations, and sure enough, they’re yours. – Richard Bach, Illusions
Do not argue for anything that you do not want to experience.
If you do not like where you are, then why do you argue to stay crystallized in it? If you really want to get over it, through it, past it, out of it, away from it, then you’d come to God instead of going to people that validate the state you are in. You think that’s support and on some level it is.
But the type of support God offers is to move you beyond all of your baggage and to heal your wounds so that you can be used to your fullness and to your full glory.
But who would you be without your sob story? Your excuses? Your pain?
I don’t know all that you’d be but I do know you’d be FREE.
~Nikki
Nikki's Confetti Life 
Oh so true. Like a 1972 AMC Gremlin in dark blue with a white strip.