The state of being obsessed with SOMEONE or something. An idea or thought that CONTINUALLY preoccupies or intrudes on a person’s MIND.
“I love you” now tell me you love me too. Text: I love you every hour on the hour. Your mind is gone and it is NOT HEALTHY. This obsession with a person and love is not love it is an obsession with the idea of a person being perfect for you when they are either far from that or you fear losing them like you “think” you lost the rest of them. You didn’t lose them you lost yourself. You must constantly be in contact even while you are on your job or they are on their job. You must be in contact with them when they are with their friends and family. If they don’t say anything or call you berate them with numerous texts and phone calls. God forbid they don’t respond or call. You damn near lose your mind. The truth is YOU HAVE ALREADY LOST YOUR MIND.
Your behavior is not ATTRACTIVE and it REPELS a person far away from you. They can’t wait to get away. It was cute at first until they realize it is DANGEROUS. A person that remains with you is either with you out of fear that you will do something to them or yourself, they feel sorry for you and they want to help you or they themselves feel the need to be wanted in such an unhealthy manner because of their own issues.
Obsession is a sign that you need help. You need professional help. You need divine intervention. You are a runaway train with no breaks headed for self destruction damaging not only yourself but everything in your path. This is not love. Obsession is the bridge to violence against yourself and others. When the object of your obsession no longer wants you…then what?